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Jay finally gets to sit down with the queen of Facebook herself, Mari Smith, and she’s got strong words: “followers are dead.” But don’t panic—this episode is packed with real talk on what actually works now, how Meta’s algorithm thinks, and why your personal profile might be your biggest untapped asset. Mari Smith doesn’t just explain the changes—she gives you the “do this, not that” of growing visibility, building community, and yes, still making email matter.

Check out Mari Smith‘s website at marismith.com. Join her Facebook group, The Social Scoop, for expert tips and community support. Follow Mari Smith on Instagram and Facebook.

Best Moments:

(02:46) “Followers are dead” and why non-followers matter more than ever

(03:34) The one metric that tells you if your content is working

(04:30) What to fix when your content isn’t getting picked up

(05:17) Why Facebook is now pushing all video posts into reels

(07:03) Should you use your personal profile or a business page?

(09:00) The format that makes going viral way easier

(10:14) The downside of viral reach with the wrong audience

(11:11) How to turn casual scrollers into leads with one smart move

(12:08) Why your email list is your most important business asset

(13:15) What “trial reels” are and why they’re a big deal

(15:10) The one factor that predicts whether a Facebook group will succeed

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Speaker A:

Welcome to do this.

Speaker A:

Not that.

Speaker A:

The podcast for marketers.

Speaker A:

Each episode is packed with quick tips.

Speaker A:

They're super short, and at the end, we have some fun.

Speaker A:

Let's jump into it.

Speaker A:

And thanks for being here.

Speaker A:

I am really, really excited.

Speaker A:

We have somebody here that I've had wanted to have on forever.

Speaker A:

If you don't know Mari Smith, I don't know what's wrong with you.

Speaker A:

She is to, to me and to everybody else, regard as the queen of Facebook.

Speaker A:

Okay.

Speaker A:

She is no doubt one of the biggest social media people on the planet.

Speaker A:

Fast company.

Speaker A:

Here's how they describe her.

Speaker A:

You ready for this?

Speaker A:

A veritable engine of personal branding, a relationship marketing whiz, and the Pied Piper of the online world.

Speaker A:

Forbes named Mari one of the top social media influencers three years in a row.

Speaker A:

She is a big deal, and what she's really known for is all things Facebook.

Speaker A:

We are going to get into it.

Speaker A:

This is going to be amazing.

Speaker A:

Mari, welcome to the show.

Speaker B:

Hey, Jay.

Speaker B:

Thank you so much.

Speaker B:

I'm thrilled to be here.

Speaker A:

Yay.

Speaker A:

All right, so before we get into some tips, tactics, quick wins on Facebook, that you just are going to crush it.

Speaker A:

Give everyone the quick rundown.

Speaker A:

Who is Mari?

Speaker A:

What do you do?

Speaker A:

How did you become the queen of Facebook?

Speaker B:

Oh, gosh.

Speaker B:

Well, I just kind of fell in love with the platform.

Speaker B:It was May the fourth of:Speaker B:

The ability to just reach out to anybody in the DMs and, you know, famous people, whatever, and just start building relationships and interviewing them.

Speaker B:

And back in the day when people would check their DMs, I just loved it.

Speaker B:

I really thought it was a magical experience to be able to grow a community and to establish yourself as an authority on a subject.

Speaker B:

And I just right away, within a few weeks, began to encourage people to get on.

Speaker B:

And way before there was ads or pages or groups or anything, I mean, it was just a radical improvement on MySpace.

Speaker B:

And so that was almost two decades ago.

Speaker B:

I can't even believe that.

Speaker B:

So the time's flown by.

Speaker B:

I love it.

Speaker B:

I mostly specialize in organic, and I know just enough about ads to be dangerous.

Speaker A:

Well, you really have carved out a community of people that are trying to understand how to navigate Facebook.

Speaker A:

And by the way, we're going to put it all in the show notes.

Speaker A:

We're going to also mention at the end.

Speaker A:

But the social scoop Facebook group that you've started is so valuable because you're always sharing the latest stuff.

Speaker A:

So I want to jump into the latest stuff and forever.

Speaker A:

And I want to know your take on this.

Speaker A:

What we have all been chasing actually, regardless of platform, you know, LinkedIn, Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, whatever.

Speaker A:

Is, I want more followers because more followers mean more eyeballs on my stuff.

Speaker A:

But is that still the North Star?

Speaker A:

Are we still trying to grow our following?

Speaker B:

We could say followers are dead.

Speaker B:

Oh, I hate to say it so boldly, but that's something that Gary Vaynerchuk would say.

Speaker B:

Honestly, it's, it's followers give us credibility.

Speaker B:

The more followers you have, it's just a perception that people think you're more important, period.

Speaker B:

Okay, great, we got that.

Speaker B:

However, the brilliant thing with the new rules of reach, how meta's AI powered algorithms are working.

Speaker B:

It's really about the non followers.

Speaker B:

It's about creating amazing content creators.

Speaker B:

Compelling hooks, great visuals, great message, draws people in, first three seconds, you know, good thumbnails.

Speaker B:

That thing can go totally viral.

Speaker B:

It's now you've got to check your stats on both Facebook and Instagram.

Speaker B:

I mean, some other platforms might do it too, but, but for sure, Facebook and Instagram.

Speaker B:

Looking at the, the little pie circle thing, that shows you, okay, how many percent saw this?

Speaker B:

That were your followers versus non followers.

Speaker B:

That is the litmus test.

Speaker B:

The more non followers you're reaching, the more the algorithms are like, wow, this is amazing content.

Speaker B:

Let's find a bigger and bigger and bigger audience for it.

Speaker A:

So, okay, followers are dead.

Speaker A:

So what do I do?

Speaker A:

What does somebody do?

Speaker A:

They're like, listen this like, oh great, I don't have a lot of followers, so now I can get my stuff out there pretty wide.

Speaker A:

I want to get started doing this.

Speaker A:

What, how do I do that?

Speaker B:

Okay, I briefly hinted at it and let's go deeper because here's the thing.

Speaker B:

If, if the algorithms are not picking up your content, it's probably because your content's rubbish.

Speaker B:

And the thing is people don't really realize it.

Speaker B:

We get really close to our own stuff, but there's where like AI can come in chat, gbt, whatever, to really help you to iterate and come up with better hooks or to, to, to dive deep into, you know, perplexity or whatever, or answer the public, you know, also it's great tools out there, the problems that your product or service is solving.

Speaker B:

And, and, and you drop these little tidbits out there as your, your free, you know, top of funnel content for your socials.

Speaker B:

And so experimenting with the hooks, with the, the thumbnails, with maybe even the length if you're doing videos.

Speaker B:

Big thing on Facebook recently is they've announced that all video posts are going to be reels.

Speaker B:

That doesn't mean that you have to only do vertical.

Speaker B:

I strongly recommend you only do vertical on Instagram because they don't have the rotation on Facebook.

Speaker B:

You can do the rotation of your phone.

Speaker B:

So you get now a nice full screen landscape player like you can do on YouTube or Netflix or whatever.

Speaker B:

So you might want to experiment with some longer form video on, on Facebook.

Speaker B:

But the key is, you know, Jay, it's like, what kind of content do people love is either educational or it's entertaining.

Speaker B:

You're like the king of memes, man.

Speaker B:

I could binge watch your Instagram content.

Speaker B:

Makes me laugh.

Speaker A:

It's ridiculous.

Speaker A:

But let me ask you a question related to all that.

Speaker A:

Do you try to reverse engineer things?

Speaker A:

Meaning like, okay, I'm going to look for viral templates, you know, carousel formats, viral video formats, viral whatever and then say I'm now I'm going to make that in my voice, in my way.

Speaker A:

Or do you just create stuff that you think kind of like checks a lot of the.

Speaker A:

Okay, it's a good hook, it's good visual, it's good whatever.

Speaker A:

Is reverse engineering the right plan?

Speaker B:

It can be, it can be for some people.

Speaker B:

Like there's a gal on face on Instagram.

Speaker B:

I particularly appreciate Ms. Caroline Flat Flet.

Speaker B:

She's fun to.

Speaker B:

I got millions of followers.

Speaker B:

Okay, great.

Speaker B:

Her content is so on point.

Speaker B:

It's like a whole school on how to do Instagram.

Speaker B:

And so yeah, you could watch what she does and reverse engineer.

Speaker B:

That's never been for me personally, for my brand.

Speaker B:

I am more about imparting like, like cutting edge news.

Speaker B:

Breaking down what.

Speaker B:

Not news, but like specific to marketers.

Speaker B:

Like how is a small business owner going to be able to capitalize on the fact that Facebook just made all videos in the reels format?

Speaker B:

How does that affect them?

Speaker B:

What about groups?

Speaker B:

Should they even start a group?

Speaker B:

What about this thing now with personal profiles on Facebook?

Speaker B:

Now there's a. I mean it's been out for a couple years, but Facebook's really pushing it where you can convert your personal profile into what's called professional mode.

Speaker B:

I actually recommend that unless you're a super private person and you're only using your Facebook profile for, you know, friends and family, fine, keep it locked down.

Speaker B:

Don't open it up to public followers.

Speaker B:

But Facebook loves to push that because it's really, it's like a public page for creators that can't be Bothered with a page and only want to stay on their personal profile.

Speaker A:

So now I'm really curious about something.

Speaker A:

So let's say I'm listening to this.

Speaker A:

I'm like, all right, I'm going to do it.

Speaker A:

I'm going to be posting more.

Speaker A:

I want to get it out there for my business, for me, my personal brand, whatever.

Speaker A:

Are you better off investing the energy in to your point, a personal page that has a, I guess a business profile or you better off doing like a brand page on Facebook and trying to push there like which one is, is better for you to put the energy behind or do you need to be doing both?

Speaker B:

So it's going to really depend.

Speaker B:

If you're like a personality based brand, I would encourage you to lean into that.

Speaker B:

It's called professional mode.

Speaker B:

It's a toggle.

Speaker B:

You can turn it on and you get instant access to what' called a professional dashboard.

Speaker B:

You're going to see insights on all of your followers.

Speaker B:

They just lump all your friends into the followers on the personal profile.

Speaker B:

And then you also get the boost.

Speaker B:

You can run ads even on your personal profile.

Speaker B:

So if you're more of a personality based brand, you could totally do that.

Speaker B:

But if you're the, you have a business as a name that's not yours, I would strongly recommend also having the public page.

Speaker B:

Not only that with the public page, business page is that's really where you're going to get access to ads manager and to really, you know, embrace the paid side of Facebook because it's kind of more of a lightweight interface, just like the boost button on, on your personal profile in professional mode.

Speaker A:

So is it harder to let's say go viral on a personal page versus a business page or.

Speaker A:

It doesn't matter.

Speaker B:

It's easier to.

Speaker B:

Absolutely easier to go viral on a personal profile converted to professional mode because it's catering to the creator audience which practically all these social networks, it's nothing about the creator economy.

Speaker B:

Every the creat I'll mention another name is Austin Armstrong, good friend of mine.

Speaker B:

He has like last I looked he's closing in on 2 million followers on his personal profile.

Speaker B:

And he sometimes shares screenshots with me where he's got like a hundred percent non follower reach on a post with like 44 million views and like, but he's got like almost 2 million followers that put their hand up and say yeah, I'm interested.

Speaker B:

And yet Facebook can still go out and find, you know, 44 million non followers.

Speaker B:

It's extraordinary.

Speaker A:

So all right, now I'm going to ask something and I, this is like a loaded question because so on my Instagram page, which I'm just really getting going, I'm trying to figure it all out, I post some stupid memes, as you know.

Speaker A:

So I post this one stupid meme and I was shocked, ended up getting, you know, 4 million views.

Speaker A:

I'm like, this is ridiculous.

Speaker A:

Now, at first I'm like, this is so cool.

Speaker A:

Look at all these new people.

Speaker A:

And I got a lot of followers out of it, whatever.

Speaker A:

But the followers that I got were total trash.

Speaker A:

I mean, not trash.

Speaker A:

I'm sure they're good people, but they have nothing to do with the ICP of my overall business.

Speaker A:

And I took a step back.

Speaker A:

I'm like, what was the value in that going viral?

Speaker A:

So, number one, going viral just to go viral, is that a big fat waste of time?

Speaker A:

And do you really need to try to get a lot of reach and engagement from content that actually fits into what you do for a living?

Speaker A:

Or is there value in just getting like, viral?

Speaker B:

Wow, I love this question, Jay.

Speaker B:

I, I think there's.

Speaker B:

My answer would be a kind of a qualified yes to both.

Speaker B:

Like, you never know what the next piece of content is going to go viral, quote, unquote.

Speaker B:

Right.

Speaker B:

But the thing is, I'm such a strategist, I'm always going to think, okay, if this particular meme or whatever, I'm not a meme poster.

Speaker B:

But I love your memes.

Speaker B:

Like I say adding into the CTA or even like in a.

Speaker B:

The first comment, if you want, you could do that Facebook or Instagram and, and just saying, setting up a chat bot and going like, DM me the word, you know, crazy, and I'll send you my.

Speaker B:

Whatever.

Speaker B:

You're really good at that.

Speaker B:

I see you doing that on LinkedIn a lot.

Speaker B:

But it's like when people DM you, and especially if you've got the automation set up and then you can pull them into an email list in a funnel, then they're going to kind of weed themselves out anyway.

Speaker B:

And you just never know when you're going to pick up, feel like a whole bunch of new, new paying clients or whatnot.

Speaker B:

So, yeah, I would say the eyeballs, all eyeballs are valuable.

Speaker B:

It's just that we don't necessarily know if all I've seen is a meme and then, and then they kind of forget about you, then, yeah, it's not so much value.

Speaker B:

But the idea here is to really keep cast in the net wider and wider, to pull in who your Ideal customers are so.

Speaker A:

All right, that was very helpful.

Speaker A:

But I just heard you say something and now I gotta check in on this.

Speaker A:

So here it is.

Speaker A:

The queen of Facebook is here and she just talked about the value of getting people off of these platforms and onto an email list.

Speaker A:

Are we saying that the queen of Facebook thinks that email data, email database growth is important?

Speaker B:

It is the most vital part of your business.

Speaker B:Can I tell you, in:Speaker B:

Anyway, we're always going to have this, this aspect of our business because yeah, just, just as of time of this recording yesterday, a whole bunch of Facebook groups just got nuked and people are freaking out.

Speaker B:

How am I going to reach my audience?

Speaker B:

Well, hello, you should have maybe built your email list in the first place.

Speaker B:

And I'm in no judgment but fortunately they're getting them back, the groups are coming back, but you got to have a backup plan for instances like that.

Speaker B:

But not only that, email marketing, you got to have this more intimate one on one conversation with people in their inboxes, drive them to your offers and.

Speaker A:

To your point, like when you're talking about your friend with the 44 million views and all, when you post something, who knows how many people are going to see it that follow you.

Speaker A:

It's like a fraction now, right?

Speaker A:

Organic reach is like tiny, right?

Speaker B:

It is, it is, it's astonishing.

Speaker B:

Even when, when I post my own stuff, either Facebook or Instagram, I'm often amazed at how large the portion of non followers is.

Speaker B:

And that's kind of the name of the game now.

Speaker B:

And in fact on Instagram, one way to do that, to experiment, is what they call trial reels where your reel will only go out to non followers, it doesn't even show in your grid and they go out and they try to find you an aud for about 24 hours.

Speaker B:

Brilliant.

Speaker B:

I mean all this stuff is basically free except for the time it takes you to, to create the creative.

Speaker B:

I believe, I predict that trial reels are going to come to Facebook sooner or later.

Speaker B:

But just popping in my head was Gary V. Talking about how we've never had a situation like this in 20 plus years of social media marketing, 30 of online marketing, where you can basically test creative at scale for low to no cost, then you pick your winners and then you turn those into the ads.

Speaker B:

Now you start putting ads on you know, the most viral posts, 100%.

Speaker A:

No.

Speaker A:

I think that testing out your reels has become so valuable.

Speaker A:

And also the new app, their edits app in terms of Instagram coming out with their edits up, I think that that's been really, really cool.

Speaker A:

All right, I have a question that's super random.

Speaker A:

So you have this very engaged Facebook group, the Social Scoop Facebook group.

Speaker A:

Everyone go and join Mari Smith's.

Speaker A:

Mari Smith, the Social Scoop Facebook group.

Speaker A:

But.

Speaker A:

And my wife's a dermatologist, so she's in these Facebook groups and she.

Speaker A:

They're just like the greatest thing for her world, her business, whatever.

Speaker A:

I don't do a lot in Facebook groups.

Speaker A:

I should.

Speaker A:

But here's my question.

Speaker A:

Is, is it too late?

Speaker A:

Let's say, okay, I want to start a community.

Speaker A:

I think I'm going to start as a Facebook group.

Speaker A:

Has that ship sailed?

Speaker A:

Would you say that is the place still to start a community of whatever it is about?

Speaker A:

Or would you have, would you now, today, if Mari Smith was getting going?

Speaker A:

No, I would do it here instead.

Speaker B:

Oh, I love this question too.

Speaker B:

I would say, you know, I'm kind of a both and person.

Speaker B:

So I would say yes on a Facebook group and potentially have another.

Speaker B:

Like I have a platform on Mighty Networks.

Speaker B:

We've got a few thousand people there.

Speaker B:

I launched a few years ago and I talk about some other different subjects, but the Facebook group, here's the thing.

Speaker B:

I'm going to quote Gina Bianchini.

Speaker B:

She is the co founder of Mighty Networks and she did, she and her team did some studies.

Speaker B:

Want to see?

Speaker B:

Maybe last year they found the number one predictor of the success of a community.

Speaker B:

It's not the leaders, not the topics, not the title.

Speaker B:

It's not the content you share.

Speaker B:

It's that members are connecting with each other.

Speaker B:

There's like this peer to peer connection and support.

Speaker B:

And fortunately I have managed to create that.

Speaker B:

My Social scoop.

Speaker B:

There's this incredible flywheel where I don't do a whole lot in there.

Speaker B:

I don't put a force a lot of content.

Speaker B:

I engage in there, have my team members engage.

Speaker B:

But generally speaking, people come back to that group day after day because they're getting help and support and sharing ideas.

Speaker B:

So that's the premise of what can really make a Facebook group work.

Speaker B:

And I see a lot of people struggle to get members and it's like, well, it's not clear what, why should I join your group?

Speaker B:

Right.

Speaker B:

Give me the big why first.

Speaker A:

Yeah.

Speaker A:

The thing that I like about Facebook groups is that People already have the app on their phone.

Speaker A:

They already know how to use it.

Speaker A:

And so often there's so many of these applications and thingamabobs that may look really cool, but nobody wants to download something new.

Speaker A:

It's just a massive barrier to entry.

Speaker B:

100.

Speaker A:

All right, all right.

Speaker A:

Before we run out of time here, first off, you people are going to hear you have this beautiful accent.

Speaker A:

They're going to think that you're living somewhere far away.

Speaker A:

But give everybody a rundown.

Speaker A:

The Mari Smith story.

Speaker A:

Like, where are you now?

Speaker A:

What's going on?

Speaker B:

I am in Ashland, Oregon, on 2 acres with solar power and well water.

Speaker B:

And my neighbors are goats.

Speaker B:

I'm overlooking a lake.

Speaker B:

Yeah, I moved here about two years ago.

Speaker B:

Before that, 23 years, I was in San Diego, California.

Speaker B:

Yay.

Speaker B:

And I was born in Canada to 100 Scottish parents.

Speaker B:

So if you cut me open, my blood is tartan.

Speaker B:

So I am fully Scottish, although I started out in Canada and I don't know, I used to say it was Scandifornian or something, but now I have to somehow leave Oregon in there.

Speaker B:

And I have three passports.

Speaker B:

I'm very blessed to have triple citizenship.

Speaker B:

And yeah, I.

Speaker B:

My passion project for five years now is studying the human design system.

Speaker B:

It's incredible.

Speaker B:

Fusion of astrology, the Chinese I Ching.

Speaker B:

Great.

Speaker B:

To really profoundly understand yourself and I know about myself.

Speaker B:

I'm just a great experimenter.

Speaker B:

I love new things and trying out, you know, just experimenting.

Speaker B:

What's.

Speaker B:

What's going to work today.

Speaker B:

I think that's why it's kept me on my toes with Facebook, because it's.

Speaker B:

It's always.

Speaker B:

It's always changing.

Speaker B:

You know, it's the longest I've ever stuck with any one career.

Speaker A:

Well, your energy.

Speaker A:

Every time I've interacted with you in any way, your energy is incredible.

Speaker A:

I'm a big fan of everything you do.

Speaker A:

I want you to tell everybody.

Speaker A:

Where can they find you on Instagram, Facebook, your groups?

Speaker A:

Tell everybody everything because everyone needs to get involved with your world.

Speaker B:

Thank you.

Speaker B:

I appreciate that.

Speaker B:

I'm pretty much Mari Smith anywhere.

Speaker B:

Instagram, Mari underscore smith and marysmith.com and there's like a YouTube say, you know, just Google me or chat GPT me or whatever the heck we say these days.

Speaker A:

Yeah.

Speaker A:

And it's Mari M A R I Smith and you.

Speaker A:

Everyone, please follow it and get involved with the social Scoop Facebook group.

Speaker A:

It's incredible.

Speaker A:

Mari, thank you so much for being here.

Speaker B:

Oh, my pleasure.

Speaker A:

You did it.

Speaker A:

You made it to the end.

Speaker A:

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Speaker A:

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